Y Me?

Invested money in equities and lost it? Why me? Met with an accident while walking on the road, why me? Client always finds mistakes in your work, Why me?

Often we confront this question; Why Me? Don’t we? And with so much of negativity around in everything; it is indeed easy to get this feeling. Why me?

Well, we have very little choice to undo things. We probably chose to be where we were, but, situations changed. You find yourself a victim of circumstances and situations more often than ever.

In either case, life gives us 2 choices to look at everything. One is to Quit, the easier route. The other is to fight it out. Remember, both are equally painful. While, when you quit, it may seem that there’s no pain and may give you instant relief. But, it does always come back to haunt you in the future. Fighting it out on the other hand may seem painful, discouraging, exhausting…but ensures that you succeed.

When I say fighting it out, I don’t mean that you should fight it out with people around you. I mean to fight the circumstances. Introspect and then take a well thought through and informed course of action.

That said; in either situation, i.e. in quitting or in fighting it out; remember, you have a role to play!

Doesn’t seem to be making sense? Well, let’s say you chose to quit. You have a choice on how you want to and when you want to quit, don’t you? You may want to exercise this option, but keep in mind to avoid any bridges being burnt on your way out. That way, you ensure that you can use the same bridge to return whenever you want.

On the other hand, if you chose to fight out the situation, rest assure, it would be tough. You may want to quit every single day, every single moment. But don’t we say, “No Pain, No gain”? This pain, believe me, would be worth a life time. Even if you don’t win the battle, this is an experience of a life time, and would prepare you for a war that you may have to fight in the future.

Also don’t forget to enjoy during these stressful moments. This would help you remain positive at all times during the battle.

You are known for the choices you make and the decisions you take.